The pot light holes are cut. There was extremely limited working room in the attic. Friday, December 19, 2008
Getting Started
The pot light holes are cut. There was extremely limited working room in the attic. Thursday, December 18, 2008
Only in Canada Eh?
The weather is cold and miserable. I came in from a bit of work outside and got this little poem emailed to me. How appropriate for a day like today.
WINTER Poem
It's winter in Canada and the gentle breezes blow,
Seventy miles an hour at thirty-five below.
Oh, how I love Canada when the snow's up to your butt,
You take a breath of winter, and your nose gets frozen shut.
Yes, the weather here is wonderful, so I guess I'll hang around
I could never leave Canada,
'Cause I'm frozen to the ground!
WINTER Poem
It's winter in Canada and the gentle breezes blow,
Seventy miles an hour at thirty-five below.
Oh, how I love Canada when the snow's up to your butt,
You take a breath of winter, and your nose gets frozen shut.
Yes, the weather here is wonderful, so I guess I'll hang around
I could never leave Canada,
'Cause I'm frozen to the ground!
Before and After
What we started with! Hey, I'm just kidding. But here is the funny part. Lis just walked in the door as I was putting on the last roller full of paint. She caught a glimpse of yellow from the front entry and exclaimed that finally, after all these years she got her yellow kitchen. She came running and stopped, like the Road Runner, just before it runs over the cliff. She was silent.
We have been married for 38 years and I can read her body language with amazing accuracy. I knew she didn't like it and I simply went and got the colour fan deck and we sat down to choose another colour. Most people re-decorate their homes every 8 - 10 years. We do it every 8 -10 hours. Pictures to follow.
Wednesday, December 17, 2008
Yearning for Warmer Days

Looking out into our frozen and barren garden, it is hard to believe that this flower was growing there only a few months ago. Right now, there is no living organisms in sight. Our power has not been interrupted since the 6 hour outage yesterday, and I have been able to complete the kitchen project.
The river is choking up with ice and the Albion ferry has been taken out of service for the first time in seven years. There is more snow forecast for tomorrow. My cousins in Saskatchewan tell me it is a deep freeze there, so I am happy to be confined to the refrigerator.
I look at all this and I cannot help but think of sunny Mexico. Or the palm lined beaches of Hawaii. I thought we would be booking that vacation right about now, for January, but because we had no work in all of December, and just picked up a big job for January, I now have to have my eye on February for the getaway. Our life has always been full of uncertainty, just like Forest Gump's box of chocolates.
Tuesday, December 16, 2008
Failure
I cannot remember the last time I was ill enough to spend the day in bed, but I can remember what it was like when I did. There are things that had to get done, but you lie there frustrated. You eventually give in to it, but it is not easy.
Yesterday our power went off and it was the same feeling. My intention was to finish the kitchen redo and I was anxious to get at it. I was just getting the tools ready and it went dark. Yes, it was a sunny bright day, but there was not enough light on that side of the house to see what I was doing. We are in an extended cold period with howling east winds and cold temperatures. This is unusual for our part of the country, but not unheard of.
I cranked up both gas fireplaces and managed to keep the indoor temperature at 18C. I thought it would be a good opportunity to detail the poor grout job I did on my tiles. Then I remembered that I needed power for the Dremel tool. Oh well, I can blog. Oops! That will not work either. I could not even phone out as we changed over to digital phone service a few months ago and it requires power. By this time it was getting brighter in the front room so I bundled up, got out my 1000 page novel and read, but all the while thinking that the power would go back on at any minute and I could resume my day. Well, it did. But not soon enough to get to the painting as the chief cook showed up from her busy day and began using the kitchen. "We have to quickly cook dinner before the power goes out again!" And here I thought that was what "Wendy's" was for.
So now the furnace is re-warming the house, the refrigerator and freezer are running wildly, and all the clocks are blinking. And we wait, as the wind howls, for the next outage.
Yesterday our power went off and it was the same feeling. My intention was to finish the kitchen redo and I was anxious to get at it. I was just getting the tools ready and it went dark. Yes, it was a sunny bright day, but there was not enough light on that side of the house to see what I was doing. We are in an extended cold period with howling east winds and cold temperatures. This is unusual for our part of the country, but not unheard of.
I cranked up both gas fireplaces and managed to keep the indoor temperature at 18C. I thought it would be a good opportunity to detail the poor grout job I did on my tiles. Then I remembered that I needed power for the Dremel tool. Oh well, I can blog. Oops! That will not work either. I could not even phone out as we changed over to digital phone service a few months ago and it requires power. By this time it was getting brighter in the front room so I bundled up, got out my 1000 page novel and read, but all the while thinking that the power would go back on at any minute and I could resume my day. Well, it did. But not soon enough to get to the painting as the chief cook showed up from her busy day and began using the kitchen. "We have to quickly cook dinner before the power goes out again!" And here I thought that was what "Wendy's" was for.
So now the furnace is re-warming the house, the refrigerator and freezer are running wildly, and all the clocks are blinking. And we wait, as the wind howls, for the next outage.
Monday, December 15, 2008
Sunday, December 14, 2008
Stay Out Of The Woods

When it happened, the parents of the two children were very reluctant to allow it to go public. It became common knowledge after some time, but the story was always told as a rumour, or a legend. The old woman who had kept them captive for several weeks, recovered from the burns she received during the escape attempt and was not seen for many years. If indeed she did return, she did not have the energy or the willingness to restore her house to its former condition. Those who saw it, say she had decorated the outside with the specific purpose of luring young children. It obviously worked, if the stories are true. Today, parents are especially safety conscious and would never let their young children play in the forest, even though I did it all the time as a young boy. What became of the two youngsters is not well known, but it has been rumoured that they took business courses at Grimm's College and soon after that opened a Bavaria style restaurant that served excellent schnitzel. They named it "The Hansel and Gretel".
Saturday, December 13, 2008
In The Woods

This is where it happened. It was quite some time ago, or so the rumour goes. It could have been recently, and by all appearances, it could happen here again. There was an attempt to burn the old shack down, but the owner said she would come back one day, when she was ready. Not many people know of this place, and indeed many say it does not exist. I stumbled on it one day while searching the countryside for photo opportunities and knew right away that this was the place. There is not much evidence now, however, if one lets their imagination run wild, it is obviously the location. I did not dare go any nearer. Was it fear? Was it respect? I simply snapped the shutter, and with a shiver running down my spine, I crept back through the forest to the road. Upon close inspection of the photo, enlarged several times, I was half expecting to see her face in the window. It could be there, obscured by the old brittle panes of glass and by time.
Friday, December 12, 2008
Ground Hog Day?

Again, this photo has nothing to do with today's post, but is just a good reminder of the magnificent autumn we had in '08.
Last night we enjoyed the annual musical drama at our church. It is known as NBC or 'Night Before Christmas'. It is performed 12 times over 8 days and more than 10, 000 tickets are sold. It is a 'home grown' production with the drama being written by cast members, as well as some of the songs, and arrangements of musical offerings. The title of the drama this year was "All I Want For Christmas" making reference to the song about 'two front teeth'. The play opened in a dentist's office which made for a lot of laughs. It was about a fellow who got to live the same day over about three or four times until he got it right. He had the help of his own personal Angel but still had difficulty. It was very well done. The purpose of all this effort, of course, is to spread the true message of Christmas. Every year there are many folks in attendance who never darken the door of a church and they hear the gospel for the first time in their lives. There are always wonderful stories that come out of that. Our guests were a cousin of mine and his wife. We had a very interesting discussion later over a cup of coffee, that related to the issues brought up by the drama. It was a very good evening, time well spent and another time of bonding between my cousin and I.
Now, back to my kitchen. And yes, there will be before and after pictures. Just a few more days to go.
Thursday, December 11, 2008
Another Interruption

I had another surprise interruption yesterday. I was in the midst of the kitchen face lift when my brother-in-law called and said he was in town. When he lived nearer, we used to love going out to see a movie on occasion. So, last night we went to see "Australia" What a pleasant diversion from painting cabinetry! The movie is actually quite good and quite a spectacle. It reminded me a bit of "Gone With The Wind", but in Australia. It shows off the country nicely and the little 'creamy' boy will absolutely steal your heart. Go see it.
PS The photo is not mine. How could it be, I have never been to the 'outback'. 'Outhouse' yes, but not 'outback'.
Wednesday, December 10, 2008
Interruption

I was in the middle of a stressful job Monday afternoon. I was grouting the tile I have installed in the kitchen and it was getting away from me a bit. Good thing I mixed only a small batch. The door bell rang and I was about to fire off a few expletives to the salesman I thought it might be. We have been getting a few of them lately. Before I could clean my hands and go to the door, a friendly voice called from the front entry and it was my grandson Liam. Well, not HIS voice, but his mom's. You see, he brought her along. A few minutes later I was taking a Liam break, holding him and watching him smile at me. Ya, I know, I look funny. I get such joy seeing him about once a week and being amazed at how much he is changing. I have to hold him and talk to him at least that often or he will forget me and I will become a stranger. A few minutes later they were gone and I was back to my grouting.
Strange how the rest of the afternoon went so much better.
Tuesday, December 9, 2008
Double Standard
So, now that Mr. Dion is gone, it seems that the Liberals are in the mode for picking a leader without a vote from the party he leads. If the coalition can do it, why not the Liberal party. The caucus will be choosing Ignatieff any day now, but poor Mr. Rae of former NDP fame is not liking it one bit, and I quote the news article I just read:
Despite rumours that Ignatieff would be installed as interim party leader, Rae said that he's still in the race to win.
"We've been whacked in two elections, we've got to make a comeback," Rae told reporters in Toronto Monday afternoon.
"I think that it's in the interest of both Mr. Ignatieff and me to have a process that's democratic," said Rae, who was joined by supporter and MP Gerard Kennedy.
Rae added that many Liberals reject the prospect that Ignatieff could be installed as leader without consulting with the party's grassroots.
"It's something that outrages people," he said. "That's a very widespread feeling."
I absolutely cannot believe he said that!! How does he think we felt about it when he and his coalition chose to run the country without a "democratic process"? "Widespread outrage"! Was this man not paying attention to what was going on in the country last week?
OOOps! How quickly things develop. Mr. Rae has dropped out and Mr. Ignatieff will be crowned sooner than later. This means that the coalition idea is as good as dead. But now what will Ignatieff do? He enthusiastically endorsed it only days ago, and now he has to distance himself from it because it was such a bad idea. ( He has been listening to the public) This will come back to haunt him. The poor Liberals. They are broke, have leadership problems, and now more baggage. How did they ever expect to run the country? If our Prime Minister plays his cards right, he will have a majority government in the next election.
Despite rumours that Ignatieff would be installed as interim party leader, Rae said that he's still in the race to win.
"We've been whacked in two elections, we've got to make a comeback," Rae told reporters in Toronto Monday afternoon.
"I think that it's in the interest of both Mr. Ignatieff and me to have a process that's democratic," said Rae, who was joined by supporter and MP Gerard Kennedy.
Rae added that many Liberals reject the prospect that Ignatieff could be installed as leader without consulting with the party's grassroots.
"It's something that outrages people," he said. "That's a very widespread feeling."
I absolutely cannot believe he said that!! How does he think we felt about it when he and his coalition chose to run the country without a "democratic process"? "Widespread outrage"! Was this man not paying attention to what was going on in the country last week?
OOOps! How quickly things develop. Mr. Rae has dropped out and Mr. Ignatieff will be crowned sooner than later. This means that the coalition idea is as good as dead. But now what will Ignatieff do? He enthusiastically endorsed it only days ago, and now he has to distance himself from it because it was such a bad idea. ( He has been listening to the public) This will come back to haunt him. The poor Liberals. They are broke, have leadership problems, and now more baggage. How did they ever expect to run the country? If our Prime Minister plays his cards right, he will have a majority government in the next election.
Monday, December 8, 2008
The Last Warm Day

Yesterday we had a brief period of sunshine that was only slightly reminiscent of the warm day in fall that was recorded by this outdoor thermometer. After church and a light lunch,we went for a vigorous walk. After a few miles, our metabolisms got revved up and we threw open our jackets, deceiving ourselves into thinking it was fall again, or maybe early spring. The things we do to avoid winter.
Later, it was off to our second Christmas Season feed in two days, at our good friend's Frank and Elma's. They put on a great spread with plenty of good food and warm hospitality. With our stomachs full of natural sedatives (abundantly contained in Turkey meat) we sat around a table of more nibblies and played games and had a lot of good belly laughs. What would life be without good friends? I shudder to think.
Sunday, December 7, 2008
The Old Blue Bicycle

This photo has nothing to do with my post for today. I just did not want to start in with Christmas theme photos just yet. But we did start our Christmas feasting last night. Now that one of us is employed by a rather large organization, we are tapping into some benefits. Our extended medical/dental etc will kick in any day now, and another perk was being invited to the Annual Christmas Banquet held in appreciation for the management and staff. I do not know if we have ever attended one of these before because we have always been either self employed or worked for a firm that only had a small dinner for staff without spouses. We had a great time and had a lot of laughs. I met some co-workers of Lis's, and saw some people from my past. The food was great and overall we had a good time. They are bunch of good people and as always, meeting new people is a pure joy.
Saturday, December 6, 2008
Arbor Light

Today, three more Canadian soldiers were killed in the line of duty in Afghanistan. Although no one death is any more significant than the other, these three young men represent a milestone for the Canadian effort there. The total now stands at 100. This pales in comparison to the death toll of Americans, even based on a per capita count.
When being a soldier in the Canadian Army, which is strictly voluntary, is compared to other jobs in the nation, it is for certain a dangerous one, and not one man who signs up does not acknowledge that. Canada has been in Afghanistan since 2002. That means there have been an average of 16.6 deaths per year. Every death is one too many, but compared to another 'peaceful' industry in Canada, it is relatively safe. Logging is carried out all across our nation, but in one province alone, British Columbia, there are 25 deaths per year related to logging. I do not think that when a young man signs on with a forestry company that he thinks for one minute that his chances for survival would be better on the front lines of Afghanistan!
The logger gives his life for lumber and paper. The soldier gives his life for the betterment of the people of Afghanistan. We must keep this in perspective when we hear the inevitable cry from the public to withdraw from that troubled region of the world.
Friday, December 5, 2008
Stairway To Heaven

There are times when we are climbing, figuratively speaking, and as we take each step forward, we are not sure of the destination. We used to know. Our dreams and goals were firmly planted in our minds and everything we did in life was to get to the top, to reach the destination, to achieve that which we thought would make us happy, make us feel fulfilled. The aging process has a way of changing that. What is at the top of the stairs is still somewhat unknown, but it seems to matter less. Our priorities change. Our idea of what makes us truly happy takes on a new definition. We learn to adapt and not be so rigid in the goal, or the steps taken to reach the goal. We begin to truly understand that there are different dimensions to life, some more important than others. Our focus changes, subtly at first, as we prepare for the 'end game'. That which is unseen gets more attention than that which is temporal.
Yesterday, my dear customer, Erika, told me that her illness was terminal. She shed not a tear, but exclaimed that we all die. We know this, but each one of us will one day face it like she has. We will then be able to count the steps to the top. But how many of us know for a certainty what is at the top?
Thursday, December 4, 2008
The Dark Cloud Over Ottawa

It has been an amazing and historical few days in Canadian politics. In a blatant power grab, reminiscent of a third world banana republic, a coalition of the three losing political parties made a bid to overthrow our elected government. Their premise was based on what might happen in Canada's near economic future. It was a lame excuse for a bunch of poor losers who were rejected at the polls only a few weeks ago, but were hungry for power and were willing to bypass democracy to get it. Had this been successful, every minority government in the future would have been in danger of the same tactic and it would have been the end of the need for elections in Canada except in the case where a majority government would have served its full term. It would have resulted in us having a Prime Minister who was rejected by his party, by the voters, and has indeed already resigned from the leadership of the Liberal Party of Canada. His cast of supporting players would have been the socialist NDP party and its leader Jack Layton, and the Bloc, a separatist party, whose leader's only purpose is to destroy the unity in our country and pull Quebec out of confederation.
Many of us have been busy emailing, signing petitions, writing letters, and voting on online polls to express our outrage and condemnation of the coalition takeover. This morning, our Prime Minister, Stephen Harper, met our Governor General, and the result was an answer to our prayers. She has allowed parliament to be prorogued (suspended) until early next year when the new Conservative budget is tabled in the House of Commons. This gives everyone a chance to assess the situation and judge the different positions on their merits.
It has been revealed this afternoon, that the coalition is already falling apart. Infighting and more dissatisfaction with Dion are plaguing them now. Just think what it would have been like had the coalition been allowed today to take over our government. I doubt it would have lasted the year.
Wednesday, December 3, 2008
No Acrylic Bath Tub Here
Abandoned house in the Nicola ValleyIn a story I posted a while back, I recounted incidents where I broke things in the course of doing my work. I was hoping that the story would require no more input, but, alas, I was wrong. On Friday, I was working in a very cramped corner of an en suite in an extremely opulent house when a tool slipped out of my hand and gently 'tapped' the edge of a free standing acrylic soaker tub. The house is new and the owner had just moved in hours ago. A nasty chunk of acrylic broke free and after scouring the room for the piece, I finally found it, but it was not complete. A sliver was still missing. Regardless, I could not hide the fact that I had done damage so I immediately went to the lady of the house and confessed my sin. Had she been a priest, I would have been absolved and that would have been that. She took a look and did not say much except that they would look after it. I insisted that I make it right, whether repair or replacement was justified. Later, when I got home from work, we looked up the model and style on the Internet and discovered that that tub is worth $3800.00 plus installation! I will keep you informed.
Why doesn't everyone just bathe in an old tin tub like they used to do when this abandoned house was a home?
Tuesday, December 2, 2008
Showdown
There is an important issue that started as a local dispute that will soon reach the Supreme Court of Canada, and will have far reaching consequences for all Christians in our nation. Our local Anglican Church, of which my friend is a member, has been embroiled in a disagreement with its leadership authority on the question of acceptance of gay marriages. It has escalated to the point where the congregation will lose its church building and all the assets that they assumed were theirs. They are considered renegades and are being extricated from the Anglican Church of Canada. It will reach the Supreme Court in the next step and at issue is the question of who is responsible for the guardianship and interpretation of the gospel, the local church or the head church authority. This is a blatant mix of church and state and has no business in the courts, but it is a long story. One of my clients is a BC Supreme Court Judge and he has stated that the judges chosen for the case will be liberal in their leanings because the perception is that this case is all about human rights and gay rights. We know how these judges have ruled in the past and they are anything but impartial.
The ramifications of the decision made at these proceedings will be huge for the Christian Churches in our country. It will inevitably lead to sections of our Bible being banned as 'hate literature' and any preacher expounding on the scriptural stance of homosexual issues could face prosecution. I believe the die has already been cast and we will see persecution of the church right here in our beloved country of freedom. It is the natural progression of a liberal/socialist society. Have we learned nothing from history?
Monday, December 1, 2008
Outraged!
I am outraged at the political games being played in Ottawa today. The unmitigated gall of the parties who lost the last election is beyond comprehension. The ragtag coalition of Stephane Dion, Jack Layton, and Gilles Duceppe are neither capable of nor are they worthy of running our country. They are in the midst of a deal to steal power in the most undemocratic fashion I have ever seen in my life. It smacks of Banana Republic shenanigans
The Liberals had the fewest votes in the last election in their entire history. Their leader never had the true endorsement of the party, and as scapegoat for the lost election, has resigned until a new leader can be chosen at the next Liberal Convention in Spring. And the 'coalition' now says he will be Prime Minister?
The NDP is a left wing socialist party that has been irrelevant from its inception and has only had support from hard line unions and their ilk. And Jack their leader will be Finance Minister?
The coalition will only work with the support of the Bloc which is lead by a man who only has two agendas in life. One is to tear our country apart through Quebec separatism, and other is to serve enough terms in Ottawa to retire on a nice fat pension and perhaps a lush Senate seat.
Where is democracy in all of this?
As of a few minutes ago, the Sympatico/MSN home page has an online poll asking who would support this coalition. Of the 55,000 responders, 60% say NO, and I am one of them.
The Liberals had the fewest votes in the last election in their entire history. Their leader never had the true endorsement of the party, and as scapegoat for the lost election, has resigned until a new leader can be chosen at the next Liberal Convention in Spring. And the 'coalition' now says he will be Prime Minister?
The NDP is a left wing socialist party that has been irrelevant from its inception and has only had support from hard line unions and their ilk. And Jack their leader will be Finance Minister?
The coalition will only work with the support of the Bloc which is lead by a man who only has two agendas in life. One is to tear our country apart through Quebec separatism, and other is to serve enough terms in Ottawa to retire on a nice fat pension and perhaps a lush Senate seat.
Where is democracy in all of this?
As of a few minutes ago, the Sympatico/MSN home page has an online poll asking who would support this coalition. Of the 55,000 responders, 60% say NO, and I am one of them.
Where is the Logic?

I heard a so called real-estate expert expounding on the price of housing in the Greater Vancouver region. There are averages involved here, the average income earner, and the average house price. In Vancouver, it takes on average, 75% of one's income to sustain affordability in home ownership. That is too high according to North American averages. So, what has happened is a slight correction, in other words, the price of housing is coming down. So far so good. It makes sense. But then he said, "Now is the time to buy a home because the prices are down and in a few years the prices will go back up." ...... But, will that not mean that they will again be too expensive for the average buyer, and there will be a glut of them on the market, and the prices will again fall? Mmmmmm.
Sunday, November 30, 2008
This is Not My Church

It is not a restful weekend for us, but I am not complaining. It is full of activities that enervate and rejuvenate. Well, partly so. Saturday was a work day for me and we will attend the Saturday evening service at our church because today I am making coffee at church and my bride is working. Then in the afternoon it is off to my brother-in-law's birthday party. Who would have ever thought he would get old! Sure, 5o is old. For him. (Oh to be fifty again!) Then in the evening is one my favourite things to do, and that is a meeting of the minds and the friends of our Care Group. I will crash tonight exhausted and renewed at the same time. Yes, it is possible
Saturday, November 29, 2008
Watching the News

I caught a bit of news today as I was having my lunch. Because I have a blog, I get to vent my opinions as they arise.
First, a bit of tragicomedy. There is a minor Chicken Flu outbreak in India right now and the video clip showed a worker in full bio-safety gear disposing of a few dead chickens into an open pit a few feet deep, with what looked like lime at the bottom. So far, so good. But he was completely surrounded by curious onlookers. They were right next to him, and leaning over the hole as the lime fluffed up. They were poor peasant farmers and not one of them was wearing more that a piece of cloth wrapped around their middle.
And the Canadian Conservative Government has just avoided a meltdown. They have backed down on their controversial plan to partially end taxpayer funded subsidies to the political parties. ( Each party gets $1.95 for each vote they got in the last election). However, they have made their point. The opposition parties were willing to either send the public to its second general election in two months or form a coalition government of all the parties that were soundly defeated in the last election. I hope the average Canadian sees what is going on here.
Five years ago, the Liberal Prime Minister, Jean Chretien, enacted legislation that curtailed business donations to the parties and since then the parties have had to adjust and refine their fund raising strategies. The Conservatives have done the best job and are flush with money. The other parties are behind the times and are very poor at raising donations. I have theories about this too. But now, in spite of Gov't spending restraints and setting an example by leading, the Conservatives are made out to be the bad guys. It is back firing as most of us can see that the opposition parties only want to save their own hides on the backs of the tax payers in tough economic times. We remember these things at election time. Shame on Gilles, Jack, and Stephane for being so self-serving.
First, a bit of tragicomedy. There is a minor Chicken Flu outbreak in India right now and the video clip showed a worker in full bio-safety gear disposing of a few dead chickens into an open pit a few feet deep, with what looked like lime at the bottom. So far, so good. But he was completely surrounded by curious onlookers. They were right next to him, and leaning over the hole as the lime fluffed up. They were poor peasant farmers and not one of them was wearing more that a piece of cloth wrapped around their middle.
And the Canadian Conservative Government has just avoided a meltdown. They have backed down on their controversial plan to partially end taxpayer funded subsidies to the political parties. ( Each party gets $1.95 for each vote they got in the last election). However, they have made their point. The opposition parties were willing to either send the public to its second general election in two months or form a coalition government of all the parties that were soundly defeated in the last election. I hope the average Canadian sees what is going on here.
Five years ago, the Liberal Prime Minister, Jean Chretien, enacted legislation that curtailed business donations to the parties and since then the parties have had to adjust and refine their fund raising strategies. The Conservatives have done the best job and are flush with money. The other parties are behind the times and are very poor at raising donations. I have theories about this too. But now, in spite of Gov't spending restraints and setting an example by leading, the Conservatives are made out to be the bad guys. It is back firing as most of us can see that the opposition parties only want to save their own hides on the backs of the tax payers in tough economic times. We remember these things at election time. Shame on Gilles, Jack, and Stephane for being so self-serving.
Shed Some Light

Today the up-grades on our kitchen started in earnest. I have been poking away at it for a while now but the major items, of which I am not capable, are now in full swing. One task which I would never tackle is installing pot lights. Many years ago, I had a carpenter friend build a 'sunshine ceiling' which contained a couple of banks of fluorescent lighting. At the time, they were the thing to install and have been a bit of a bother with burnt out tubes and defunct transformers, not to mention the debilitating flickering light that emanates from fluorescent. She who cooks is very light sensitive and at times claims to suffer from light deficiency syndrome. I am trusting the eight bright overhead pot lights will shed some light on her dilemma.
Friday, November 28, 2008
The Red Chair
The Red Chair held my fascination during this photo shoot. Actually, there were three of them so I did not have to heft any chairs from location to location. I have always preferred to take photos of things the way they are.
If these chairs were not taken in for the winter, I am sure they were covered with frost this morning. The roads were a little frosty in our neighbourhood this morning.
I wish our neighbours to the south a Happy Thanksgiving this weekend. The American economy and the turkey have something in common. Life was pretty good 'till now, and suddenly, things are taking a turn for the worse.
The Perth mint has suspended all future orders for its gold coins. The demand is simply too great. There is a similar scenario in every other country that mints gold coins. It seems that everyone is wanting to have a bit of gold to tide them over during the coming troubles. Because there has been a precedent for confiscation of gold held by private individuals, I have not bothered to purchase any. The only gold I have right now is the gold in my Autumn photos. Have a great weekend, one and all.
Thursday, November 27, 2008
With Two it is Better

I was back to the Regier property again this Autumn, at their invitation. It was such a delight to be there in Spring, as we reviewed the grounds for the garden tour, that I jumped at the chance to see it once again with the fall colours. It is a metaphor for life. In the spring, there was greenery and fresh verdant life all around. Now, not only was the light fading, as it does in Autumn, but there was decay and decline all around. It was a beautiful warm fall day and this sunny spot beckoned. How appropriate that there was seating for two. As one grows old, there is a need for companionship. Growing old can be lonely as one pines for youth so having someone to reminisce with, and complain about aches and pains with, makes the load a bit lighter. But how can we ever complain about aging? We all want to live a long life, and the only way we can do that is by growing old!
Wednesday, November 26, 2008
Armchair Coach

As I grow older, my list of life's little pleasures seems to be diminishing. But one pleasure that is still well within my grasp is my love of hockey. I played as a young boy in Saskatchewan and it became a part of me. Now, I observe and coach from the comfort of my easy chair, propped up in front of my big screen TV. I am a little too vocal as I watch, and I wear my emotions on my sleeve. You would think the players on my team could hear me all the way from there.
My team is doing very well so far this season. The expectations for them were very low only a few months ago. Tonight, (Monday night) with their key player injured and out for a few weeks, they defeated the hottest team in the league, in the dying minutes of the game. I love the game of hockey, but especially when 'we' are winning. I may change my tune in the days following, but you will not know it because I will not admit it. I am a poor loser.
Tuesday, November 25, 2008
Shortcomings
This is the newly completed playing field next to the High School at the top of our street. In this photo, they are playing soccer, but it was built primarily as a football field as the High School has a great sports program and their football team makes it to the finals every year.
The field took more than a year to construct and as it progressed, I would walk to the top of the street and be amazed at the time, effort, materials, and technology that went into its construction. It was done for a cost of $1 million. The artificial turf is exquisite and is embedded with tiny rubber chips for safety and resiliency. Most of the preparation for the field involved addressing potential drainage problems. It is 'state of the art'.
It has amazing lighting for night play, lighted and heated team boxes, a large electronic scoreboard on one end, and a series of bleachers for spectators. The beautiful anodized chain link fence gives ample room on the sidelines. The school property extends way beyond the sidelines so why was the field not built east/west instead of north/south? My letter to the editor of the local paper was published but nobody could answer my question. You see, the football field ends at the goal line on either end of the field with a sturdy chain link fence. There are no end zones! Monday, November 24, 2008
November Doldrums

Let us pretend it is still Autumn. These November doldrums are dull and uninspiring. Only one month ago, we had these vibrant colours surrounding us.
You remember. I know you do. All this last year, as the gasoline prices were rising and driving the cost of every up, Stats Canada came out with its monthly inflation index and to make the numbers look better, and hence the government look good, they excluded the cost of gasoline and food, in order to keep the inflation rate looking artificially low. They did not fool us as we knew every time we paid our bills and just lived, it was costing more to do so.
Last week, Stats Canada again came up with the inflation figures for October and the increase in the rate is down. Did you get that? Not inflation itself, but the increase, is lower than usual. And do you know what reason they gave? The price of gasoline has dropped! The price of gas should either be factored in or not factored in. Do not use it only when it is convenient. This is about as blatantly deceitful as it gets. But we have to come to expect this from certain elements of our government.
Sunday, November 23, 2008
One Year Anniversary

It was one year ago today that I started to blog. It has been a fun and interesting experience. To date, I have received on average, 16 hits a day. Lately that has increased, but in the beginning things were slow because I was only starting. The 'hottest' day was 170 hits. I have had visitors from virtually every country in the world. I can find out how they discovered me and it is usually through a Google Search. To date, my post on Gerbera Daisies has been by far the most popular post by which people find Terryography. Hardly a day goes by when someone has not found me through that post.
It has been a fun and creative process to come up with something every day. Sorry if it gets a little repetitious but some issues are on my mind more than others. I have so appreciated the comments from so many of you. I am always surprised when I 'bump into' people who say they are reading my blog. I had no idea and think that now they know more about me than I would care to have them know. I have been toying with the idea of starting another blog that gets more personal. I find it helpful to express my thoughts in writing as it forces to me to define them more clearly. Another blog would explore issues such as faith. That is such a huge part of my life that I would never run out of material.
One more comment is that I usually am about three or four days ahead of myself. That is, I schedule the posts so if they seem at times to be behind the times, that is why. For example, I wrote this one on the 20th. So, if you heard that I died and the posts are still coming, the announcement will not have been a rumour. But then again, Mark Twain commented at one time that the announcement of his death had been greatly exaggerated. Maybe he was a blogger too.
Saturday, November 22, 2008
Walk Away From It
Imagine, if you will, that Joe and Mary have just bought a house but have to take out a mortgage from the bank to pay for it. They have $50,000 as a down payment on a $400,000 home and the mortgage is $350,000. When they go in to sign the papers and find out what their monthly payments will be, the bank informs them that they will actually be paying for $450,000 mortgage. Joe and Mary look at each other and say,"I don't think so!" and they promptly walk out.Right now there are 10's of thousands of homeowners across North America whose mortgages are coming up for renewal. They will be renewing a mortgage that is more than what their home is worth, just like Joe and Mary were asked to do. When the value of a home is worth less than the mortgage, it is called 'under water'. And like Joe and Mary, they will say, "I don't think so." And they will walk away.
Friday, November 21, 2008
Where is Waldo?
Waldo is not in this photo. Don't waste your time trying to prove me wrong. It just looks like one of those "Where's Waldo" photos. I appreciate your comments and emails regarding my stories. I have posted 15 of them since I have started my blog almost a year ago now. If you are interested in reading any you missed, here is a recap. There are stories of both my childhood and later of my experiences in my business.
"The Four Ghosts" was the story I posted that got the most comments. It is not about ghosts, really, but is a human interest story. Like all my writings, it is 100% accurate and true. It can be found in the May archives here. http://terryography.blogspot.com/2008/05/phone-rings-and-sweet-voice-tells-me-i.html
Here is a story about a Red Cross Blood donation that went bad. Really bad. This was not childhood nor work related but my story nonetheless. http://terryography.blogspot.com/search?q=blood+donor
Every little boy's nightmare, learning to square dance in school. But who knew it would turn out this way? http://terryography.blogspot.com/search?q=square+dancing
A few encounters with death in my line of work. Fortunately not my own. http://terryography.blogspot.com/search?q=near+death
This was somewhat work related, but a funny experience I had with an 'old school' home remedy practitioner. http://terryography.blogspot.com/search?q=reflexology
Adventures of school life in a Saskatchewan small town.
http://terryography.blogspot.com/search?q=Funk+twins
Mishaps and accidents on the job. None fatal, thankfully. http://terryography.blogspot.com/search?q=Give+me+a+break
All about the weather, as a young boy recalls it, in Saskatchewan. Adventures and descriptions.
http://terryography.blogspot.com/search?q=collect+hailstones
One of my more unforgettable customers, Mrs. Bergen, gave me many memories and lots to write about. http://terryography.blogspot.com/search?q=Mrs.+Bergen
One of my favourites, this is a story of little boys getting into and out of trouble. http://terryography.blogspot.com/search?q=1950%27s+style
This is one of the first stories I ever wrote. I can't remember why I chose to put this particular
incident to paper, but it became the first of many. http://terryography.blogspot.com/search?q=painted+animals
I should have launched a career as a private detective after my experiences here. http://terryography.blogspot.com/search?q=shop+lifting
My Grade one and two teacher, unforgettable. http://terryography.blogspot.com/search?q=Belle+shakeups
Another of my favourites is this story of lies and deceit all precipitated by piano lessons. I should have stuck to hockey!
http://terryography.blogspot.com/search?q=piano+lessons
Thursday, November 20, 2008
Squirling it Away
It is a daunting task to get one's self through university. Not only are the costs onerous, but the volume of work and dedication are beyond many people's capacity. The net result of all the effort and costs is to establish one's self with a career, which in turn secures one's financial future. But just one minute! We are now living in times where that idea looks a little out of touch with reality, for a least some people. There is a free education going on right now which will teach us all life lessons. The free economy market place is holding a crash course on corrections and recession and all we have to do is open our eyes and watch. The lessons to be learned are that you cannot secure your future on spending and credit, and the value of your assets will not always remain on the up-swing. Squirling away money for times like this turns out to have been the right strategy while all around, people were spending as if there was no tomorrow. And for some of them, there might not be, at least not in their own luxurious home.
Did I say this was a free education? Actually the tuition is very expensive as we are all finding out now.
Wednesday, November 19, 2008
Where Is It?

Wallet, keys, glasses, cell phone. Wallet, keys, glasses, cell phone. This is the mantra I was chanting as I got dressed the other day. I was changing my pants and got distracted as I was tightening my belt. These are the four things I cannot leave the house without. I had gone for an evening walk the night before and because I am afraid of getting mugged in a section of town a few blocks from here, I left my wallet at home, throwing it into the drawer of my night table. (As if this is not the first place a thief would look after breaking into my house!) I tend to repeat important things to myself in an attempt at trying to remember them. Apparently I will have to change my strategy as I found myself walletless much later in the day. At first, I panicked, thinking I had lost it. Then I remembered. I drove the next 40 kms rehearsing a speech for the cop that would surely pull me over. (Peter's Principle) Amazingly, it did not happen. I think the cop sitting beside the road forgot to turn on his radar. He looked about my age.
Tuesday, November 18, 2008
Red

We had our municipal elections here last Saturday and I am bit frustrated. There were so many candidates for each position that it was a daunting task to get to know enough about them to make an intelligent decision. It is a fact that an incumbent has the best chance of re-election if for no other reason than name recognition. If we see the name in the news often enough, we think we know them and then we will vote for them as opposed to another person, who may be a better choice, but we do not even know the name. I am waiting for the day when party politics comes into play at the local level, like it does in the larger cities such as Vancouver and Richmond. We can then vote for a slate of candidates. If we do not know the contender, then we can at least know his politics.
Monday, November 17, 2008
Spring Rafting

It has been a while since I have posted a story. Here is another adventure I had as little boy growing up in the Prairies.
One of the best spots was directly on our shortcut to school, due west from our house. We almost always took this route to school as it was direct and quick, across the street, through Barrand’s yard, across the back alley, through Greeve’s property and over their driveway and only one block further, across the empty field. Another great spot was about a block west of my Dad’s grocery store, although it was too visible, and a chance encounter with my Mom was highly probable as she traversed this route routinely on her way to Main Street. And then there was the location next to Butch Dueck’s yard, which was by far the most dangerous and therefore the most exciting and most appealing.
Spring rafting was one of those activities that would never be allowed in today’s world. Certainly parents would ban it, but I am sure there would be municipal, provincial, and federal regulations making it a forbidden sport.
There was a small window of opportunity for rafting every spring, just after the last bank of snow melted and the spring rains were willingly finding the lowest land in town. Being a flat prairie town, the low spots were few and far between, but gravity and the undulations of the prairie did provide for sloughs in the wet years. During my time in Lanigan, there were several very good years for rafting and certainly the memories those times provided were some of the best and scariest.
All three locations were vacant city blocks. The land being too wet for housing, would grow bulrushes and willow trees and was generally good for little else. In the tall grass and reeds beside the roads that surrounded these properties, were well hidden structures made of logs, planks, 2x4’s, and other assorted floating materials. As the years went by and generations of kids recycled these mini arks, they fell further and further into disrepair. Most of the heavy tree branches were recruited for shoring up the platforms and it was often difficult to find a branch long and strong enough to serve as a push pole. It was Saskatchewan, and trees were a rare commodity, especially the ones that had long durable branches.
Spring runoff was a very exciting time of year as it heralded the end of the long bleak winter. There was a smell in the air of new growth and promises of warm weather and summer holidays around the corner. We would test the water content under the shrinking snow drifts that always grew particularly large in the depressions of the land. Each day held a little more promise, and as soon we dared we let our foot go through to the bottom and our boot would fill with water for a certainty. And that was cold water, with semi melted chunks of snow still floating on its surface.
The day would soon come when some brave soul would test the depth and announce that it was indeed deep enough, and then rush off home, with squishing watery sounds coming out of his boots, before hypothermia could set in. The exact location of the raft had to be determined before the water got too deep or it may be stranded where nobody could reach it. If the previous year had been particularly wet and the water deep and widespread, the raft would have beached on the outer reaches of the property and would have to be physically manhandled toward the water. This was almost impossible for us small children because of the shear weight of a bunch of water logged timbers strapped together. Usually the water level would eventually reach the raft and with only a few heaves and grunts the contraption would be pushed to where it would float.
The bigger kids always got the first rides. It was the pecking order. Besides, if the raft held them, it would hold the smaller ones too. Except that there was usually more than one kid on at a time, and that contributed greatly to the instability and the danger. That in turn increased the chance of a dunking, which if in deep water, could result in a drowning or at best a bad cold verging on pneumonia.
And so it was that eventually we were rafting part ways to school. There were usually several rafts on each slough and that meant there was almost always one for coming and one for going. If not, we did the usual walk around the block. There were challenges, however. We were in our ‘school clothes’ and we sometimes had books to carry. The boots were not a problem because we wore boots all spring, regardless. There were no sidewalks or paved roads so there was mud everywhere and boots were the standard for adults and children alike. Getting on and off the raft usually required a leap because the raft was grounded, but on a gentle slope so there was water between the dry land and the wooden platform. The leap was onto a very small, very wet, very slippery landing pad and one had to be careful not to slip off the far end into deep water. The books made it even more difficult. If there was a chance we would be late for school, there would be multiple passengers, making the voyage quite precarious. There was always a lot of pushing and shoving to get to the raft and later on the raft. These water craft were very unstable and an unbalanced load would make them slowly sink down on one end, making it imperative that somebody be shoved very quickly to the end rising above the water. It always made for an exciting trip to and from school and usually a story to tell our farmer friends who only had a bus ride into town that morning.
As exciting as that was for us boys, the best was always saved for Saturdays. I had many chores and responsibilities on Saturdays, but there was usually opportunity sometime during the day to have an adrenaline induced rush at the deepest slough in town. Not only was it the deepest, but there was some bush undercover, and an adjoining pit that was full of water all year long.
This was the scary end of town for me. The people who lived here were on the wild side, except for Butch and his family. There was Jimmy Schmidt, the alcoholic teenager, and the Vernard family, who nobody knew or hardly ever saw, and Jim Hill whose dad was my hockey coach but there never seemed to be a mom around anywhere. But the scariest family was the Hunt clan who lived within sight of the deep water that drew us kids like a magnet. Dennis was a year or two older than me but had already lived a lifetime. He rarely showed up for school, always had money, and his aunt lived with him and his dad. At least I think it was his aunt. She was an epileptic and I remember seeing her have a seizure in my Dad’s store one day. It was one of the most frightening things I had seen until that time and I remember thinking she would die right there in front of me. It took an hour to clean up the chocolate bars scattered all over the floor as a result of her thrashing. After a while, she recovered and headed out of the store, back to her home, forgetting her groceries in a brown paper bag beside the door. She had some really bad burns on her hands and face, the result of a seizure at home, happening a little too close to the wood stove.
Jimmy and Dennis were friends in a loose sort of way. They enjoyed guns and knives a little too much and it was scary being anywhere near them when they were in the mood for fun. One afternoon, Butch and I were pulling his little red wagon to the well to get drinking water for his mom when we heard hysterical laughter coming from Jimmy’s yard. As we passed the front of the house, we saw what the cause of all the gaiety was. Jimmy and Dennis were standing 50 ft. apart, taking turns shooting each other with a BB gun. The biggest round of laughter came when Jimmy’s front tooth came flying out of his mouth. Moments later, Dennis lifted his shirt and had to dig a BB out of his skin from just beside his belly button, with the hunting knife he always had tucked in his belt. We just could not bring ourselves to stay for any more of the fun and games and headed for the well at a brisk trot. I knew they were crazy and it was confirmed when Butch told me about the night his Dad was out to walk the dog and Jimmy shot at him and his dog with a .303 from out his upstairs bedroom window. We pushed the little red wagon the long way home that day.
The big deep water by the Hunt house was always off limits when Dennis was anywhere nearby, but there were a few occasions when the coast was clear and we got to experience the most dangerous place in town. I had a very healthy respect for water, indeed, a fear of it. The best rafts in town were in the deepest waters and if you knew where to look, you could actually find a push pole long enough to reach the bottom, that is, the bottom in most parts of the swamp. I had a fear of getting in so deep that my pole would not reach the bottom and I would have no way of getting back to shore. There was a back up plan and that was to tear off a plank from the raft and use it as a paddle. The trouble with that plan was that the planks were usually nailed on with spikes and were impossible to budge.
I had a bad feeling from the start, partly because I knew that if my Mom had any idea where I was and what I was doing, she would ground me for most of the rest of my childhood. If we stayed in the deepest part of the slough where the trees were, Butch’s Mom would not see us out of her kitchen window and we would be just fine. We did not have much time so we decided that we would get on the raft together instead of taking turns. I got on first, without incident, and then Butch jumped on. But the combined weight settled the raft down on the reedy bank and we were stuck. He jumped back off and after pushing me out a little way, he made a leap for the raft. He miscalculated and hit the edge, not only shoving the raft farther out, but he never gained a footing and went straight into the water. He floundered and I panicked. I pushed my pole down to get back to shore to help him, but the pole just went down, down and did not touch. With cries of “help” at my back, I got on my knees and reached down as far as I could to get a purchase on the bottom so I could shove the raft back. With my hand down in the water, I managed to touch bottom and with all my strength, pushed. Imperceptibly at first, the raft leisurely made its way back in the direction it had come. If not from the cold, then from sheer terror, Butch lunged for the raft and hung on as if his life depended on it. And it did. I would have preferred that he lunged toward shore, but this was not the time for that particular discussion. His body was between the raft and dear sweet land, and that was a dilemma. Now that we were both thoroughly panicked, I simply followed my instincts and jumped in, grabbed Butch, and together we waded to shore. The cold was numbing and almost instantly I lost feeling in my feet and legs. I was only wet to my waist but Butch was soaked from his brush cut to his gum boots.
We struggled to a dry spot and sat in the grass and emptied our boots. It was a sunny day, but early in spring, when there was still a chill in the air, and I knew we had to get to shelter soon. I eyed the Hunt house, only a hundred yards away, probably with the cook stove stoked and burning, but, on the other hand, Aunt Esther might be on the stove burning too. That, plus the prospect of Dennis taking aim at us with his BB gun, drove me in the other direction, straight to Butch’s house and sure trouble, but of a lesser variety. We made it and had a laugh after, but only because his Mom was not home and we had a chance to dry off almost completely.
Conversation at the supper table that evening was routine. Naturally, I did not let on about my adventure. I wanted to tell someone, but I would have to be satisfied that only Butch and I knew. I was thinking about the danger I had put myself in and how lucky I had been that it turned out OK. Then my Dad mentioned that he had heard that Dennis Hunt was in the hospital in Regina. He had got himself into a knife fight and was hurt quite badly. It made my little bit of danger seem like child’s play. We never did see Dennis after that, but regardless, I stayed away from the deep water at the Hunt house.
Sunday, November 16, 2008
Discovery

I hope you, my dear readers, do not mind me extending Autumn so far into November. I still have plenty of shots of the wonderful foliage we experienced this year in our neck of the woods. The colours on this photo look like they have been manipulated, but I assure you, they have not.
During the past year, our city has amalgamated and improved some of the walking trails and connected them into a network they called Discovery Trail. The trail is delightful and used a great deal by joggers, cyclists, and walkers like myself. It extends for many miles through the city and offers a variety of terrain and vistas. It may never be far from a busy thoroughfare, but mostly, it feels like it is in the country. Our city's motto is "City in The Country" but these trails represent 'country in the city'. A good use of tax payers dollars.
Saturday, November 15, 2008
Before the Wind Came

I was strolling through the sunny and shady patches among the trees, throwing my jacket open at one moment, wrapping it tightly at the next, when I began to notice how the low October sun was filtering through the yellow pigment of the autumn leaves. When I was a young lad, I was told that the sun must always be at your back when taking a photo. It became my delight, not much later, when I bought my first SLR camera, to defy the rules and point my camera at the sun. I had a fear, at first, that like the retina of the eye, when exposed to direct sunlight, my lens, or light meter, or film, would fry in the intense light of the direct rays of the sun, especially because it was being magnified by the lens. Much to my delight, I have discovered that the major influence that makes a photo good or bad, is the lighting. Unique lighting is interesting to look at and when we see a photo taken into the sun, we delight in it because we ourselves would not look into the sun, but now by looking at the photo, we can see what that would be like. Many of my favourite photos I now take that way.
Friday, November 14, 2008
Archives
Have you ever 'counted the seconds'? The first thing that comes to mind is watching the clock tick down at a sporting event such as a sudden death playoff. New Year's Eve is another event where we count the seconds, or at the launch of the space shuttle. How about counting the minutes? Waiting for a traffic light to change, trying to get to an appointment on time, waiting for someone who is late, or enduring commercials while watching your favourite TV program, are a few examples.
Minutes can drag out interminably, or they can fly by far too quickly.
I learned a few minutes ago that I am 31,883, 125 minutes old! One would never think to count that out, one number at a time, but if we were conscious of every minute of our lives and what we do with them, we would be more aware of how many of those minutes we put to good use or how many we totally wasted.
I think a life broken down into minutes becomes important when we realise it is often the small things we do that count the most. Yes, lifetime achievement is probably the big goal, but how we live our lives minute to minute is really how we eventually achieve the lifetime goal. We can make a decision in a minute, we can act on something in a minute, we can say something kind to another person in a minute, and when the hours and days and years have passed by, although we will not recall every minute, we will reap the harvest of all the minutes put together.
My hope is that you do not consider it a wasted minute to have read this.
Thursday, November 13, 2008
Good, Bad, and Ugly
Autumn rains continue to pelt down: BadThe temperature is warm: Good
The coloured leaves are all down: Bad
The markets are in free fall today: Bad
Work is slow: Good/Bad
No good choices for Saturday's election: Bad
I had dinner with a long lost cousin: Good
7th shoe with foot found on the beach: Ugly
Wednesday, November 12, 2008
Still Remembering
The sixth anniversary of my mother's death has just recently passed and the Remembrance Day that we have just had, has triggered memories other than that of war and veterans. For those of us who have had our mother's well into our adult lives, it goes without saying that we will never forget them. But my mother forgot me. After birthing me, feeding me and changing my diapers a million times, after bandaging my wounds, comforting my broken heart, and teaching me right from wrong, after encouraging me to follow my dreams and teaching me a faith that lasted a lifetime, she forgot me. After becoming best friends with my wife, after supporting me in my various business endeavours, after loving and caring for my small children and feeding our family at her sumptuous table innumerable times, she forgot me. You see, a thief came in to her door one day and began stealing all her cherished memories. It started out slowly but he got bolder as the years went by until he had the very soul out of her. We stood by and could do very little as we saw her slowly drifting away from us, little by little. It was agonizing as she became someone we did not know, just as we too, were becoming children that she no longer knew.
And now I comfort myself with the memories of my mother, the mother I knew before the thief came, and I comfort myself with the knowledge that I will see her again one day, whole and perfect, and she will remember me.
Tuesday, November 11, 2008
Remember

We remember, and yet we wonder. Why do conflict resolutions so often end in war? Are wars that we participate in always just? When young men and women lose their lives in a war that is 'lost' did they die in vain? Why can we not learn that war always does more harm than good and that there can be other solutions?
My own father who is now 86 years old, was a young man who was called to war through the draft. His father's faith was Anabaptist and non-resistant, a faith that was taught and caught in his family. There was the choice of conscientious objection and alternative service, which my dad chose with great struggle. He served his country for two years helping to keep essential services running while many of his friends and school chums donned a uniform and were shipped overseas. Many of these young men died in the battles at Dieppe. To this day, my father struggles with this reality. I believe it is called survivor's guilt. I have discovered this same thing in veterans who served in wars and managed to come back alive.
There is suffering in death and life, when it is war that a society chooses.
Paths and Benches
As promised, more park benches and autumn paths.
Getting older does not mean that the pace of life has to slow down. This was brought to my attention recently as I did some work for a retired fellow who grew up and worked in Switzerland for most of his life. He showed me a panoramic photo of some of the more famous Swiss Alpine mountain tops and told me that he had climbed every one of them. The Matterhorn has always intrigued me and I quizzed him on his experience climbing that granite peak. He assured me it was all pitons and ropes and very difficult but he did it several times. Then to my surprise, he told me that he still rock climbs on 'The Lions" north of Vancouver. He is almost eighty but is short and wiry and very fit. When I asked him if he climbed by himself, he assured me that he did not as it would not be safe at his age. He then informed me that his climbing partner is 90!
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